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No hope for SD
Her response when she found out daddy isn’t going to contribute to the party that he was explicitly barred from attending? “But if you don’t help out mum will have to pay for it”
SMH. Exactly. Mum will have to pay for it. Why would we want to help her mum pay for less?! For this party. For a anything else going on in her life.BM has done so much damage by putting SD on an altar. Last round of messages said things like
“I don’t expect SD to contribute a cent towards her party”
“What’s important is that our daughter deserves a special 21st”
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Thoughts - Reinforcing bad behaviour
Has anyone ever compared toxic BMs/skids to animals? I think of my lot as hyenas sitting beyond the house boundaries waiting for a sign of weakness. When they start cackling and circling do you feed it or hurl a rock at it? DH sometimes regresses and feeds. There's signs at the wildlife parks to not feed the animals for this very reason. They're wild unpredictable beasts and feeding them will only serve to reinforce their belief that you're a source of food. And when you have no food, they'll attack.
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