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What to do when BM just shows up

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Submitted by theoutsider on Fri, 09/20/2013 - 12:48pm

The oldest girl 12 was SUPPOSED to be at basketball practice last night until 5:30, but on her own, decided not to go.
Apparently BM told her she was going to pick her up from practice. (BM's time was last night 5:45pm-7:30pm, pick up location our home)
So BM went to school and the 12yogirl was not there, BM then came here to our home and picked them all up.

NOW it LOOKS like to the Coach, that my boyfriend is not communicating with BM about the girl not going to practice. (Because obviously BM had to ask "why isn't girl12 coming out?")

Does this need a response or should he just ignore?

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Submitted by theoutsider on Tue, 09/17/2013 - 9:33pm

This is a re-post from the forum, I just want more eyes to see it, I want comments.

BM sent this after she got off the phone tonight with the kids. This is the first time she has gotten to call our landline...,... Does it call for a response? Or just ignore? EVERYTHING BM says in this is complete fabrication!

"(MY BOYFRIEND ALL IN CAPS),

Not a SM YET, but don't think for one second that means I am clueless

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Submitted by theoutsider on Sun, 09/08/2013 - 11:16am

I've got some crap on here for not being a SM, it seems to be a never ending battle.
And well lots on here have made personal jabs at the few of us who are live-ins without the title of "STEP"

I just want to share my background, because although I am not "SM" I have more than lived it-and still turned out ok.
I'm not claiming to be an expert but living it all around me and seeing how things were handled is different than just getting plopped into it.

The corn cobb up BM's butt

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 08/22/2013 - 1:44pm

So my boyfriend and I joke all the time about BM having a corn cobb stuck up her butt...

Last night the kids were talking about something mean BM did to them or something and my boyfriend spoke up and said, "sometimes I think she has a corn cobb stuck up her butt"

And I can't believe it but I was quick to defend BM!
(cant believe it but I did)

And another giggle at BM's expence

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Submitted by theoutsider on Sun, 07/28/2013 - 9:24pm

BM is now all upset that she can't call the kids cell phone, FDH terminated service because BM would power off the phone and not let him talk to the kids or the kids call,...

So BM sends an email DEMANDING to talk to the kids (it had been 48 hours since she saw them last).
But in her email she included the phrase
"You need to provide an alternative phone number for that of which I can call to speak to the kids as well as they can call me with as they wish."

SO FDH responded back:

THANK YOU BM FOR LETTING US DOCUMENT THAT YOU DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOUR DAUGHTER!

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Submitted by theoutsider on Sun, 07/28/2013 - 7:36pm

We got the kids back from BM Friday night,... I posted that she just sent a text at 4pm (pick up is 5pm) that the kids are to be picked up at her parents house (45 miles away from her place). That was an ordeal in and of itself, but we went past.

The kids asked FDH if they could stay the night at BM's parent's house and FDH agreed.

SO, fastforward to Saturday afternoon when FDH picks up the kids from their other grandparents.

Oh, Lord BM,... Are you really that stupid???

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Submitted by theoutsider on Thu, 07/25/2013 - 6:34pm

So,.... FDH gets home from work today and BM has been blowing up his phone with text messages,...

I personally think she FINALLY started going through the emails FDH sent her and she had a smartass text comeback for each one.
FDH did NOT respond to these texts, I just wrote MY own commentary after them,...

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