Ok, we will start with this. I have 2 bio children of my own d10 and s14. I now have 7 skids. We have no kids together. The ages range from 18-3. We were 13 hours away and for the first year did not see them but on holidays. We got married and moved to be closer to them, but this was not the only reason my DH had job offers and his Dad was in the area as well and needed help because of his health. We just recently found out the SD3 was his because BM admitted that SD3 wasn't his because she stated it was someone else's who she was seeing while they were married. Long story short.