I am trying to keep my sanity. I have been a stepdad for 3 years and have done everything possible to respect the ex. My stepdaughter has a mild form of autism and her father neglects and abuses her during visitations causing her excema to flare up so horribly that it often gets infected. She is a sweet girl but due to the changes in routine and the abuse ( which we cant prove) her behavior is horrible after weekend visits.