Help Please. I chose a blog in order to give details about my problem. My husband and I have been married for 17 years. He has two children, now 24(d) and 23(s) years old. They were 3 and 4 when we married. His ex remarried a year after their divorce. Anyways, the problems started when the daughter at 14 yoa, began to refuse to come for the week-end visits, wanting to spend time with friends, etc. No problem, she was not forced to visit, was told she could come when she wanted. Things were fine.