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Why must BM's be so malicious..

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Submitted by Sweetness on Tue, 04/15/2008 - 8:37am

I just need to vent here.. it has been a while since I've been on here. But I just don't understand why the BM needs to be so malicious.. it is not my problem if she did not want her husband when she had him.

I am so sick of her blaming me for the demise of her own marriage. I had NOTHING to do with it. I only came into the picture after they had separated.

And she constantly tells her 3yo daughter that I don't love her and that I am not a nice person. The distress she is causing for her own daughter is heartbreaking. Why can't they see past their own selfishness?

I HATE the BM!

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Submitted by Sweetness on Fri, 09/07/2007 - 1:16am

I just need to vent. It's been quite a few months since I've used the site but anyway, the situation is sticky.

First of all my boyfriend has a step-son to his ex-wife-to-be and a daughter. And secondly he has two daughters to a previous girlfriend. Long story + Big mistakes.

Basically, I met my current b/f through my ex. My ex was pretty much cheating on me and encouraging the now boyfriend to talk to me and hang out while the ex was off galavanting around with other women.

Part two of two BM's!!

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Submitted by Sweetness on Tue, 04/03/2007 - 9:28pm

I just wrote a blog on Ex-wife-to-be. Now to begin on the Ex-g/f who was around before Ex-wife-to-be. She is mother of BF's two oldest girls, 7yo & 5yo. BF and Ex-g/f are always in and out of Court as Ex-gf is always making allegations and accusations against BF and his family.

She's not afraid to play dirty when it comes to extending her visitation rights. The fact of the matter is, in my opinion, she is a bad mother. She doesn't care about the girls and she only wants them out of spite towards BF.

Imagine having to deal with two BM's!

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Submitted by Sweetness on Tue, 04/03/2007 - 8:45pm

Well G'day there!

First of all, I'd just like to say that I'm VERY new to this and it's good to know that I am not alone. I've been quite frustrated with the BF on a couple of occasions feeling like he doesn't understand my position/what I'm going through. So, it's reassuring to know that there are other people out there going through the same or similar situations and that there are people to talk to!