Stepson Calls for Father's Day
Well, about 4:30 p.m., SS finally called my husband to wish him a happy Father's Day. I am still perturbed about being overlooked for MD though. But at least my husband got a phone call from stepson. SD is really going off the deep end now and has apparently dumped BF and hard at work pursing the rocker from Denmark. I guess this must go along with her quote that she wants to be a pop star and get her drugs for free. Way to go SD! One for the team!
Don't you just love my cynicism? Seriously....I've really had with SD. Husband is unaware of the quote about getting free drugs. These kids are one in a million.....don't you just wish they clone them?
I am still thinking that there is a gene for idiocy...I swear it's genetics.....it's gotta be..Hope the rest of you celebrated Father's Day with nice, traditional celebrations, if that was possible for you and your husbands.
Regards,
Sweetie
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Don't Let them Get you Down
I have a similar problem with my "stepdaughter" - she had no problem asking me to go and get her mom a Mother's Day card the day before Mother's Day and I didn't get so much as have a good mother's day yourself from the stepdaughter - some kids are never accepting and when the biomom doesn't enforce simple rules of respect, how can you expect the kids to know any different. Just be thankful that you and your husband have such a strong relationship.
SK lack respect after years
Dear smcpaw,
Well, after years of being taught better, at least in one household, both SK, just lack the basic respect for me now. I am pretty miserable these days, and very hurt. Both of them are older now, and should know better, but when you go back to living in a home with no values and showing no respect to others....you just basically go backwards. It's kind of like evolution, except backwards. I'd have to say, it hit me hardest with my SD, who is 17 now, and has been gone for almost four years now. The rebellious stuff she does now, clearly screams for attention, but she will clearly not get it because that is exactly what she is seeking. My husband and I have been through far too much with both children now and it is much too late to go backwards anymore. We basically had to move forward to get on with our lives...my SD's behavior became more erratic and bizarre and when we saw her in public it just got worse. So, my husband took a job transfer with the federal government and we came to GA. But I am still having lack of respect with SS who turns his feelings on and off....he doesn't call for six weeks or so, and then just wants to turn everything back on. And I just don't go for that. He passed me over on MD, and just was here the week before with his GF, and he wasn't in contact when my husband was in an accident, he can be around when it's important to him.....I think you understand my meaning....