Well, We had 2 phone calls this afternoon on the landline. No messages, but stepson called twice. Then he called and left a message on my cell wanting to know if he could stop off and visit on his way back from leave going back to his military base in FL. I told husband to call him and figure things out. I am not going to deal with this anymore. Husband will not discuss any issues with SS regarding SD or ex. And SS will mind his own business. I have nothing to discuss with SS at all. I am still very angry and upset. But I think that since he (SS)is driving within 2 hours of us, that he should stop and see his Dad. Who knows when he will see him again? He already missed his Dad's BD yesterday. I don't know what to expect, but my husband can deal with the fallout this weekend. And if SS doesn't like it, there's always the door.
I am still working on the reference issues for the job I interviewed for last Friday. Seems that if you don't have the phone numbers, people won't even look them up on the internet. But it was rather the strangest thing about this job anyways, because I had applied for it in April, and then they didn't contact until July to interview. So, I don't really think that they were really in too much of a hurry. I just don't like to be left hanging. It's not very nice. I'll just keep waiting and look somewhere else. I am sending her a 2nd letter with all reference phone numbers and addresses. I am very frustrated. We are an hour from the city which is a long drive for work. The only thing around here you can possibly get is working at Wendy's or McDonald's. It's really terrible. So, I try and hang tough, but that's probably why everything gets to me, because I think too much.
Hope everyone else is doing well. Not too certain about this stop over of stepson's. I'm rather uncomfortable. B/C who know's if he's back and forth on the phone with his mom in between? I don't need the headache.
Regards,
Sweetie