Bonk! Bonk! To the Head! Turn of the Try to Give Him a Chance Dial
The old adage goes, fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me!! Here it is....now Friday night and still waiting to hear from SS about plans to stop off sometime over the weekend to see his Dad. Don't know what his plans are. I am so fed up, as I wanted to do something else and here we go again, waiting around. How incredibly rude! This is not the first time he's done this, but it will be the last, because we are going out tomorrow morning if he's not here, that's just tough luck. I'm completely fed up with this. Anyone else get treated like this? I'd wanted to go to the matinee Ringling Bros circus on Sat. May go anyways if we don't get a call tonight. What would you do?
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Oh Sweetie
We really do have so much in common! Of course, we no longer have that problem of waiting around since SD hasn't been around in over a year and SS only comes around every so often. Now when SS comes around he calls first and if we have plans already, hubby tells him so. It wasn't always this way, but hubby finally had had enough of the waiting and wondering scenario. So, what would I do? I think I would go to the matinee and say "Tough Luck" to the SS. But in order for it not to cause problems hubby needs to be the one to decide and explain to SS. I know I wasn't much help but Good Luck to you and let us know how things go.
Bonk, Bonk, Bing!! Doink! What Fools We Are!!!!
Hey Lyla,
We must be at the head of the line for fools. Yea, SS calls is calls on Wednesday night to say he will be calling Thursday night to finalize plans for the weekend, but never calls, Friday goes by, we hear nothing, Saturday morning we drove into Swainsboro as it was too late to get the circus tickets (by this time I'm annoyed) and ticked cause we aren't even welcome to call him on the phone now b/c of nasty comments from the ex, and then I got home this afternoon and he called the house and left no message, and I had been checking my cell and there weren't any messages. Rechecked my cell and he had just recently left a message that he was in Richmond, VA in traffic x 3hours, and I had my husband call him back, and he only left MD at 8:30 a.m., said he forgot to call Thursday, and told husband he would be here Sat., I said to husband, I've had enough of this! I am really angry about lack of respect and courtesy. So, he will be driving all day, only to use our home for a flophouse tonight and leave in the morning to drive back the rest of the way to Eglin AFB FL tomorrow. He spent 3 weeks with his GF in MD, and no time with my husband at all. The entire 3 weeks he was staying at his Mom's. So, I guess you can gather how angry I am. Why do I even try or bother? He should be spending time with his father. I shouldn't have to tell him that. Right now, I could cave his head in.
It's like the ex is trying to take everything. She just sabotages every relationship until there's nothing left.