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Help? BM is majorly crossing the lines.

sweethoney's picture

So things have just escalated and escalated. She tried filing an abuse complaint with DFS but that didn't work for her. Then my ex boyfriend (my son's bio father) suddenly found out my address out of no where, and I finally got it out of him that BM had sought him out. She had figured out who he was to me and obtained his phone number, then proceeded to text him multiple times telling him it was urgent and his son was in danger. She then met up with him, and tried to get him to set me up in an abuse case, and gave my address out to what she knew to be a complete stranger and some one who could've been dangerous to my son and I. I'm getting kind of worried how far she will go with this, and if she is a danger to me or my son. Is any of this grounds for a restraining order?? What can I do about it, I have already stopped watching his son, and we stopped taking him til things slow down.

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livizzle's picture

I would def contact the police to see what they recommend that you do. This woman sounds very unstable!

sweethoney's picture

His dad doesn't have our address because he abandoned him when he was an infant and i had not spoke to him in over a year and a half, and he has really never cared up to this point, he is a drug addict and unreliable. The reason is not me not wanting his son there,its we don't want the tug and pull of a custody battle and his son be smack in the middle, so til we can settle all of that he will have to stick to phone calls, his choice not mine. Every time he comes the cops are involved and it is unhealthy for his son. That's why we made that descion after long deliberation and suggestion from CPS

sweethoney's picture

Thank you, He's actually trying to grow up but we are taking things really slow to protect my son in case he skips out, he started paying CS which he has not paid a dime in two years and he calls every so often to check up, it is sad that it took him two years to realize my son was important though

anita...sigh's picture

Get yourself a copy of Divorce Poison and quick! This situation is not cool at all.

sweethoney's picture

Yeah she is a total nutter, I called DFS to see their take on things and waiting now for a call back then I will call the police station to see if she did anything I can press charged with