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Hasn't cashed the check... very suspicious

Sweet T's picture

Submitted by Sweet T on Thu, 10/20/2016 - 3:12pm

So because I was an idiot and didn't go through the state ( that will change when we get through the review) twice a year he gets an extra paycheck and I refund him. Time before last he never said anything and I just emailed out the check. This time because things are really bad between us ( even prior to the review) he told BS9 to remind me this is a 3 paycheck month. I told BS ok, I knew that. I do not mail out the check until it hits my account because I do not trust him. He asks BS again and he told him he had told me, and he asked what I said... he told him I had said I know.... I mailed the check out on the 30th ( same day I got the money) I took a picture of the postage meter stamp because again I am a bit paranoid it is now the 20th and he still hasn't cashed the check. He is such a lying victim I keep thinking he is going to try and say I kept his money.

Doesn't it seem odd that he had BS remind me of the check, twice but has never cashed it.

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Lulu90's picture

Submitted by Lulu90 on Thu, 10/20/2016 - 3:16pm

Email and ask if he received the check. I would have sent it a way that had to be sign just so I know when he got it.

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Submitted by Sweet T on Thu, 10/20/2016 - 3:36pm

It seems like it would be super easy to just email him about it BUT since he has not responded buck to the last letter from my lawyer and anytime I do communicate he is nasty I am avoiding the subject of money.

I did respond yesterday to a "favor" he asked of me for pictures of the dog he just put to sleep. He did not reply back with an acknowledgement or thank you. I need to let him know that BS9 went to the DR today because of his cough he has had since the last time he was there. The ex went nuts on me last year over the kids allergies and demanded I take him in for allergy testing verses just putting him on allergy pills again ( he had been tested when he was younger) as I had taken him off after the summer when they seemed better. That was one of the last times I spoke on the phone to him. After his yelling at me and hanging up and refusing to listen to me I will only email or text.

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Submitted by purpleflipflops on Fri, 10/21/2016 - 6:15am

BM would do this every single time. She would wait weeks, sometimes up to 8 weeks to cash a check. I got sick of having to move that line down in my register, so if we owe her something, I use online banking. They take the check out automatically and I don't have to wait for it to be cashed. I have done this for several years, until this past time for school supplies and shoes. I mistakenly had DH write out 3 checks to her instead and it took 4 weeks. :O I'll remember that next time.