Me and my husband have been toghether for 4 years. Met my ss when he was 10 months,hes 5 now. Loved it didnt have any problems with him. Thats until we had our first child, a girl this past november. Bio mom found out and her jealousy got the best of her. Completely stop taking care of her son. She sent him to live with us, which we have no room for but whatever he sleeps in a big storage closet. We have him throughout the week and she gets him weekends. He always comes back dirty, and hungry and slower(mentally).