Ive posted a couple times before about this so I'm trying to reflect. As previously mentioned, I have a roller coaster relationship with SD14. When she likes me, we're thick as thieves, but then she turns and acts like she doesnt know me.  It's beyond frustrating and now I brought it up in therapy and the therapist said "she sounds like a normal teen and you shouldnt care." But i do care. i've tried not to care but it irks me that this Jekyl/Hyde situation is happening in my own house and it makes me feel super awkward in my own home.