I feel MUCH better since my last post. Those who responded clearly know what they're talking about. We've done 95% of what was suggested by you all, but definitely still learning to cope. Any other suggestions are totally welcomed. I have responded to all, but not sure if people are notified of this.

This has been so helpful. Glad to have finally reached out for help. I hope I'll be able to help in some way in the future as well.