So SD14 has come to join us this weekend. Although I didn’t cringe when DH first told me, a hour into it and I’m already over it. 

Growing up as a child in a Hispanic household you bet your ass we spoke and said hello upon entering any household. Saludar! Not even a hi until 30 minutes in. Ok, well we know there’s no home training. But my lord, as a woman raising three girls I am raising our oldest to take care of herself as a woman. 

DH comes to me “Babe you have any tampons or lads?” He knows it’s TOM for me. I tell him I have plenty. He thens says she needs some- my response “how can she not come prepared knowing she was on it more importantly is her mother still that self absorbed to not have her daughter with shit she needs?” He shrugs and says she came prepared with one. 

Enter dumb look here. 

Well I guess you better go buy her some. 

He saysnokay as he walks away. Petty? Maybe... but he knows I’m 100% disengaged. 

They were talking about her girlfriend when I went to go make a bottle and he nicely tried to bring me in the convo as now she wants to be with boys. 

My response “my name is Bennett and I ain’t in it” and exited the kitchen. 

Clearly we all know I’m over it and will further disengage when needed.