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Stepkids and FB passwords

stepmom31's picture

Submitted by stepmom31 on Fri, 03/18/2011 - 10:54am

So SD got her FB back but mom had the password. This meant she couldn't use it at our house. Then BM gave DH the password so that he can log SD on when she's at our house. But she asked him not to give it to anyone because things like that should be between the two of them only.

I kinda get it. Kinda, but not really. It feels like DH and BM partnering up and leaving me out completely. It feels like they are having secrets together, and this just isn't a good feeling.

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DaizyDuke's picture

Submitted by DaizyDuke on Fri, 03/18/2011 - 11:03am

Sorry, but if SD is accessing a computer in YOUR house, then YOU as a head of that household should be privy to her password so that YOU can check her usage as YOU see fit. I mean really??? What in the world are you going to do with her password, post naked pics? friend Bubba in the local jail? Grow up BM..... good grief!!

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Submitted by skylarksms on Fri, 03/18/2011 - 12:58pm

Your H can tell BM whatever he wants. But WHY would he NOT share the password with you????

That would be MY big question...

stepmom31's picture

Submitted by stepmom31 on Sat, 03/19/2011 - 6:39pm

Well, after much heated discussion about his "secrets" with BM, he gave me the password.

HS - I don't ever see him saying that to BM, anything like "WE" will piss her off royally and cause drama.

Skylarksms - This is what I told him.

Amazing how you're supposed to behave like a parent but then not get parent priviledges, eh...

I have no care to go on SD's facebook, both she and BM are blocked from mine. But it's the consideration as a wife and parnter in this life that matters to me.