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Does anyone know if a restraining order or anything like that could be filed against the bm if her and my husband have joint custody? I'm asking because my ss lives with myself and my husband for almost 2 years. He has sole physical custody and the bm has visitation. She has called and harassed two different doctor's that have seen my ss to the point where both doctor's have refused to see my ss any further. There has to be something legally we can do right??

I am having a really tough time being a Stepmom. My husband is gone for 2 weeks at a time. I am a single parent to a child that isn't mine. The Bio Mom lives out of state and see's my ss very little, and maybe calls once per week, if that. Bio Mom history... my ss has been taken away from her twice for abuse, so that is why my husband has sole physical custody. My ss has been misbehaving so much at school. He has hit people, spit on people, kicked people, throws fits, disrupts class, etc. We have gone back and forth with counseling for my ss b/c of the trauma he went thru with bio mom.

Ok, my situation... My husband, the bio dad got custody of his son over a year and a half ago. I took on all of the responsibilities. And I mean ALL where my step son is concerned. I have so much so that I feel taken advantage of big time by both bio parents. But, that's another topic. We have since moved to another state, step son with us as well. My husband recently took a new job that requires him to be gone 2 weeks at a time. I am here with my step son alone. I do have a family support system here, which helps. But I feel like a single parent to a child that isn't mine! It's so hard.