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I'm Leaving!

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Hey All!!

It's been a while since I posted and in the meantime a lot has happened. Things got so bad and I was so unhappy with both being a step-mom to two horrendous freaks and my failing marriage that, after much thought, counseling and support from friends and family, I decided to leave my husband and get a divorce.

I am FREE!!!!!!!

Letter to DH (follow up to previous entry)

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Kay Guys, here's the letter I am planning on giving DH. I changed all the names to the ones I use on here so hopefully it won't be confusing. I would love any comments, suggestions, advice and feedback. I really hope I am doing the right thing here, but it's being causing be a lot of anxiety to have this giant elephant in the room that I can't talk about. I tried to be as honest and tactful as I could, but I didn't sugar coat anything either. Thanks for reading every one and I appreciate your advice and support more than I can say!!!

Fed Up: A Vent

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I am completely fed up with the situation with my SS6. As he gets older, I (and tons of other people) have noticed that he is turning out to be one creepy little kid. I'm very concerned because he is showing symptoms of being a sociopath. His behavior over the past few months has escalated to the point that everyone is noticing. I don't know what the deal is because SS12 is doing great. He is turning out to be an awesome kid.

Little sneaky nasty violent manipulating brat!...(a vent)

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Okay, so I am seething right now and need to vent! Since it is vacation and H is home to be with the skids in the morning, I have been able to sleep in a bit which is fantastic and much needed. One of my best friends is visiting us from out of state and we have been staying up late watching Ghost Adventures and basically having the adult version of a slumber party. My sister and her boyfriend have been hanging with us and it's been really fun. BUT, yesterday morning, SS6 woke up early and my BFF, who is sleeping on the couch while we have the skids, was woken up by him.

Is it a full moon?

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I am out of the loop, but it seems like everyone I know has been going through an unusually rough time and crazy ex's are even nuttier than usual. My nephew's dad is being crazy and freaking out because my sister is in a serious relationship with a very stand-up, protective guy who happens to be ex-Navy and a cop. Nephew's dad just got fired because he was embezzling thousands of dollars! He had done that at his previous job and gotten away with it and he is just crazy enough to push his luck and risk his livelihood.

Annoyed...

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This is a pretty generic rant and I mostly just need to vent, so skip this if you want to read something posted by someone who doesn't feel like a whiny little bitch! Blum 3

Being proven right can be bittersweet

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Okay, so as much as I love and care about my skids, I, more than anyone in their lives, see their problems and challenges more clearly than H and BM, because I have an outsiders perspective, but at the same time, I am not an outsider because they are my kids too and I am highly involved and intertwined with their lives.

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