So I am a young step-girlfriend I suppose. BF and BM were never together except for the night of conception. I am confused in my role because BF and I have been together not long after conception and then found out BM was prego. We also live together. BF just went to court and recieved visitation on his requested days but only at his parents. I don't know my role or when to say something but it seems like his parents are raising his child. I guess things will change next time he goes back to court but how much do I say. And I'm tired of BM thinking she will ever have a chance with BF.