FABULOUS!!!!!!!!!!
My DH have been married a little over a year. The skids have made my life a living hell since I moved into the house. Rude comments and disrespect along with their mental issues. Their BM is a nut serious issues like crazy and talks shit about me and DH all the time.
Well I sat down with my DH and had a long talk saying a can't live like this anymore and he needs to talk to SD. He said he tried and she just said I was lying and she never said certain things. 
Then he asked if it was me that bothered her and she said we don't talk to her. Oh yeah because I have tried everything but give her a kidney:D
I asked him if the situation was reversed what would he do?? He said he would leave. He would not be treated that way and thinks I should get my own place...
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OWN PLACE....
"Today is the day your swore was going to be different -- yesterday."
Nick Murray, financial planner and author
He wants to stay married and I would have my own place like it was in the beginning. I think he wants it to be how it was before his kids decided to go off the deepend. He said he would never put up with it and would have left. He thinks I am going to leave because the situation is soooo out of control.
Ever wish the Skids and BM were gone, gone, gone????
Before I ask this question, let me clarify that I honestly DO like my SSons....
However, I am finding more and more that when I look at them, I see their mother and all the trouble and headache she is causing cause she feels entitled solely on the fact that she happened to donate 1/2 of her DNA to them.
It's never enough for her.
When my husband and her split up 8 years ago, he gave her everything. The house, $2000K a month in CS, and primary physical custody of the kids. Less then a year after they split, she remarried, sold the house she swore she wouldn't and her and her new husband walked away with a huge chunk of change, no bills, a new house and a brand new set of cars.
Forward the clock till now, they're on their 3rd house, saddled with almost 5K a month on their mortgage, a ton of bills, and less then 100K a year between the both of them. She AND her husband are now faulting us because we bought a new house and live rather comfortably due to my husband's CS being reduced because there is no longer child care and my doubling my salary since I finished my graduate degrees.) For months, all we've heard about is how awful we are, how awful our integrity is (because I choose not to tell the kids I was pregnant until after the first trimester has passed.), how we're sitting on a 1/2 million dollar fortune (hubby is a cop who lives on 29% of his salary after CS-someone explain how we saved 1/2 mill???) etc, etc.
I get the impression from her that we don't deserve to live nicely because the "Queen demands it" and it just GAULS me to no end.
I just HATE it. I hate her and I hate her busy body, obnoxious husband. My feelings are now affecting how I view the boys. I know it's not their fault but I can't help feeling like our life would be so much easier if they weren't here. I feel like an ass when those thoughts pop into my mind because it's not their fault their mom is such a nutcase and has lousy taste in men.
But I can't help it and I wonder what in the hell I was thinking when I got involved in all this....
How do you guys cope with all of this???
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How old are those kds.