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Submitted by step mom of 1 on Fri, 06/08/2007 - 9:34am

O kay so yesterday Dh and I had to go meet with a detective and the social service guy in the court house to get Dh's side of the story. Long story short the detective noticed that Dh and ss story do not match. SS was caught in a lie three times he could not remember what he told one person to the next. SS told three different stories he told social services that it was on his leg, he told dectective it was on his neck (collar would not fit my dog weights 10 pounds so she has a very small neck). Then he told a secretary in that office that it was a joke his daddy did nothing wrong. So thanks to his three different stories charges were DROPPED!!! If ya'll were wondering he would have had to service 30 days in jail and pay a fine of $5000. So I told him ss was not allowed back at our house. He agreed that as of right now unless there is someone else around ss can not come over. This has been too stressful!!

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Submitted by whatamess (not verified) on Fri, 06/08/2007 - 11:13am

I agree with you 100%...It's so sad how some BMs do this type of thing, just to get DH in trouble...yet I can assure you that at some point "you" will be responsible for not allowing SS to visit his dad at your home...That's how it always is. I do agree with you 100% that he should NOT be allowed in your home at this point, honestly, I don't think I'd take him anywhere unless it was meeting him at a public place...I wouldn't even want him in my car alone with DH. Of course, the BM in this case will eventually twist it so that SS feels that his daddy doesn't want to see him because he "lied"...what a horrible feeling for a child...but you MUST protect yourself.

Because we have been through such similar situations, I basically decided the same...I don't want SD in our home...period. We cannot risk having this stress in our lives caused by someone who lies just to get what they want...It is unfair, but it's not fair what she has done to you either.

I am very happy for you and your DH...I can't imagine the horrible stress this has put you through...