:O well I decided to look in the mirror, and noticed I had facial hair, and I said " Wait a minute, I am the man of this house and what I say goes, if any one has a problem with that, they can pack there s***, and get out",!, of course I said this to myself, in a whisper voice, in the bathroom , where nobody could hear, (lol!), I just told bw I was watching game, I made her a bowl of soup, she was feeling under the weather, told ss , I hope your program is over by kickoff, he said no prob, turns out he wanted to watch the game also, it was painless, and stress free, thanks for your feedback

Ss spent the night last night a a friends, from yesterday after noon until tonight, bw is on her way to pick him up, of course he already argued with her on the phone, but to reflect on the weekend with just my bw and myself, pure heaven, peaceful, fun, relaxing, we had fun doing everything together, we took our time last night and made love, not tired, no stress from, the brat, taking his time to make sure ,he does not go to bed at his bed time, there have been numerious times where we have "plans to have fun in bed" and ss ruins it by arguing with bw, making us all go to bed late, and jus

dw, has been complaining about ss, and his bad grades for 3 days, now she sent me an email from his school, the teacher basically saying he just doesn't care, if he is grounded tonight then we will watch his favorite movie, or play his favorite board game, in a weird way I hope that happens, so I could go up to my music room drink wine at work on music, ( just 2 classes), is that wrong of me to feel that way? now what should I tell dw about the email? mayday mayday

Just want to say, I know I'm going on and on about ss, it has been 7 years of bottling up stuff, getting upset at my wife if she diapproves of my "two cents". But it is helping to let you all in my home, if you will, I really love this site, I will have plenty to blog about real soon, because my ss is 13, and you know how that goes,