Court order states that on fridays ss14 does not have school that ouch up will take place at mid-location at 7 pm. Bm typically will pick up SS directly from school but she made a big stink stating it was not safe to meet at a vacant school if school was out.

She texted DH yesterday, prior to her (2 'min) court ordered call with SS stating "see you at 5 at meeting spot". Dh didn't answer.

We will show up tomorrow at 7 pm per the court order. We will not give her a hint as to the correct time to show up. We will not proved her with letters outlining dates and times (that are noted in the court order) moving forward. We are always met with a snarky response when we do. She can't pay her portion of her son's ANYTHING, I am done being nice. She can figure it out in her own.

So... Friday, I anticipate she will begin texting dh by 5:15 asking where he is. Dh will text back stating he will be there at 7, as the court order states. She can stick around the next 1.75 hours to get her son or she can forfeit her time and head home.

Is it mean? Yes. But, please remember this is the woman that has put sugar in dh's gas tank several times, popped his tires, and dh has a ro against her. We've / I've gone out of my way to make it easy and clear for her to have her visitation with her son and all we get in return is a stupid bitch and all her stupid low life comments.

Nothing was to talk about.

This will also be fun in two weeks when SS does not have school on her pick up day. Even though I've shamed her and encouraged her to go in the school office, look in the website, etc, she won't do it. So that day will be similar. She'll drive tj the school for her 3 pm pick up only to find a no school day and that the exchange is supposed to happend 30 miles closer to her house in 4 hours.

How many times do you think she'll need to have this happen till she'll take the responsibility on herself.