Bm left dh when ss14 was about 5. She left to party and be with another woman. Dh eventually mbira dam hor away, closer to his family. He always allowed bm to show up when hs wanted because he wanted ss to have his mom in his life.

She'd often show up drunk and he's allow her to sleep it off and be on her way. Or was usually when she was fighting with her gf.

Dh told me something funny.

Once, he got his cable bill and it was double what it usually was he called, angry and wondering what the issue was.

They told him he rented movies: lesbians in love, teenage lesbian part - and the like. He was embarrassed, mortified, tucked his tail, paid the bill and went in his way.