Anniversary
Ok so today is our 1 year anniversary and it's defintely not what i expected when i said "I Do". My husband had to work the earlier part of the day but was off for the evening. I was spending some qt time with the kids. We went shopping, and watched movies, and got lunch. So my husband comes home with a card and a gift for our anniversary. It was a good card and pretty picture frame. I was really just surprised that he got anything. So the night goes on and were all hanging out doing our own things, no problem's that's fine. Here's the thing that got under my skin. My husband is sitting in the living chit chating with his 2nd grade son about the good old days that they used to have with him,the kids, and his ex. Know he's not the one that brought it up, but i honestly felt like that was defintely bad timing! When i tried to be understanding and be apart of the conversation, i was snipped at and met with attitude like i had no right to be apart of that conversation because it was about them and only them. It just really amazes me that his ex could be such an evil, deceitful, sneaky, scandalous, selfish person, as we have both seen and experienced but he stills wants to talk about her. Really!!!! I understand that, that's his sons mom, but how hard is it to say, "I don't want to talk about her, I want to talk about you" or something along those lines.....SPO!!!! O yah and now he's sleeping!.......uuuuuugggghhhhh!
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Very insensitive to have such
Very insensitive to have such a conversation on your anniversary, and IMHO, DH should have saved such a conversation for a time when he is definitely in private with this son, as it could be hurtful for you to overhear, especially if he is going to be such a douche bag as to attack you for trying to join in.