Hey yall! I am 23 years old. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now. He has a son who is almost 5 years old. We started dating when he was about a year old. I was around his son about every other weekend for the first few months. When he was almost a year and a half old..the biological mother got into drugs. Meth, Cocaine, all kinds of stuff. Not only did she start doing the drugs, she started selling them. She slowly started wanting less and less to do with her son.