ok so i'm sorry i'm sooooo aggrivated at my dh's ex wife. she's always been such a control freak and has sole custody of the girls (long story) well, he's had less than standard visitation because at first the girls were mad at him and that's all they wanted. Eventually their anger lessened and said and had asked mom for more time with dad, but she wouldn't ever allow it because she "wasn't required to". Well, they are currently at the "end" of a modification which gave him WAY more time then before example: holidays 12-6 every other year on the holiday, the night before to noon every other year to 12 on the day of the holiday (he's never had them more than 48 hrs on any given holiday) summer everyother weekend and 1 week that SHE set for everyone and despite the girls told her MANY times, when dh talked with her it was cause she "isn't required to agree" AND last father's day she KNOWINGLY signed them up for a camp that took them away from him for father's day without talking to dh about it, then gave them a guilt trip to go, despite dh told them we could get them to their camp at the end, but mom said, no they need to pack.....dunno why he didn't give a dose of her medi to her.........didn't get a SINGLE call from them on fd either!

SO believe it or not, even though she's previously stated that she'll agree to standard visitation in the motion to modify she STILL is not cooperating for christmas without attorney involvment because it's not "ordered"-it's not YET. my dh has a copy of the papers to be filed in court and attempted to get them to her this weekend (was his, but due to new visitation she should've had them) but she woudln't take his word for it or the papers....HAD to contact her attorney first.

really? so now my dh's attorney is pretty much telling her's that we can get it ordered this week or she can cooperate without legal envolvment....we have proof she's previously agreed.

do you really have to be such a control freak..i honestly feel so sorry for those two, the yougest sd has confided in me and told me that she'd rather live with us, but because mom would put a HUGE guilt trip on her (she would too) she's not going to testify to that (don't blame her).