BM was recently sentenced to 90 days in the county jail. We received letters to the skids a couple days ago and she is wanting them to come visit her. In my opinion, children that age do not need to see a parent in that situation (SS13 - SS12 - SD5). BM was given full custody of skids during divorce in '08, but gave them up 1 month later saying she could not handle them and did not want them anymore (we have full physical and legal custody and it was done through the courts).