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Is it childish of me to demand that SO focuses on me instead of complaining about BM all the time?

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Submitted by smomof2 on Mon, 05/07/2012 - 3:40pm

I feel like in SO's life, BM gets the spot light while I'm forgotten in the background. BM gets a book while I'm just a footnote.

EVERY single week, BM stirs up some shit, which leads to SO constantly complaining about it, spending time talking talking to his lawyer about it, talking to his friends and family about it.

When you meet SO, the first thing you'll learn about him is that he has a psycho exwife, and then that he shares 2 children with the psycho bitch.

Something that made me smile today

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Submitted by smomof2 on Thu, 04/26/2012 - 10:11pm

SO was reading to the skids in their room while I laid on the couch in the living room. When ss4 came to the living room and saw me laying down, he asked "SM you tired?", before I could answer, he came over and covered me with a blanky, then kissed me on the forehead. My heart melted:)

Days like these are some of the reasons why I stay despite the neverending daily drama from BM.

I know it was wrong, but the adreneline rush was so worth it :)

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Submitted by smomof2 on Thu, 04/26/2012 - 3:10pm

Even though BM moved out 2.5 years ago, she still uses SO's address for her mails. Before I moved in, whenever BM's mails come, SO would put it in the boys's backpack when they go back to her. SO asked BM several times to change her address but so far it has not been done. Probably that's because she moves every six months or so. Once I moved in, I started putting "wrong address" stickers on her mails in hopes that the mailman will get the clue and stop deliverying BM's mails there.

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