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example one:
dh gets papers that bm is seeking full custody with right of refusal of dh's visitation if i would be watching ss4. She actually is so stupid as to have her first couple sentences in her statement read, "every thing was fine with custody arrangement, but respondent remarried" then in seeking more cs, actually states that she needs more money from my dh because she fears her disability is running out. ummmmmmmmmm helllllllllloooooooo, GET A JOB!!

so i was stressing, thinking she cant possibly be so stupid as to think this crap is going to get her full custody when dh has had 50/50 all of ss's life. i was thinking, she must think she has something that is bad (a lie obviously since dh and i do everything by the book!) but i was going crazy trying to figure out what story she had made up for court! Then she proves me wrong! she really IS that stupid! shows up with NOTHING! not even a single sheet of paper and rambles about the stupid crap she put in her statement, that we had all kinds of evidence to show she was a freaking liar!

example two!
last week she tells dh that she is trying to look for a pre school for ss. because she knows she broke a court order by removing ss from daycare with out consent from my dh. this week, dh asks her what places has she looked at because Tuesday on his day off he is going to go look. what do you know she only has been to one! and already has him on the waiting list with out approval from dh. so dh calls and says, take him off the list, i have not approved! smnikki will compile a list of 10 local places, we will both (dh and bm) on their own visit the places and decide which one they want ss to go to, and then meet to decide..............so ive been calling, getting info, blah blah blah

come to find out....ss is out of daycare because the state asst program cut her off because she wasnt looking for a job and free loading! the place where she told dh she had him on the waiting list is a preK, for ONLY low income families. and only provides care for half day which since dh and i have jobs this clearly wont work. but because bm has no money she qualifies for free care there! once again bm is working the system! how can she possibly think that only half day care was going to fly? she just really is that freaking stupid!

also, just because she refuses to get her lazy azz up and get a job to pay for care for ss it infuriates me that she is so okay with putting ss in govt programs and care facilities that are only "low income" she might be nothing more than poor white trash but dh and i work hard to provide a good life for our family and that includes ss, i just dont get how a mother can be so quick to lower the quality of life her child has...ugh, she is just so freaking stupid!