Yes, I acknowledge it - I hate my SS. He's the devil. That feels better.

BUT, I have not forced him out of my home. Quite the opposite, I have welcomed him into my home far more than his own mother ever did. So, why am I now getting text from DH saying things like: "I've talked to (his) grandmother and I will drop him off with her Sunday so he will be gone after this weekend. I thought you should know that." To the untrained eye, it may not look rude but I know the tone assigned to this message.