I have been in a 10 year relationship and find myself struggling now more than ever with sharing my wife. When we met, her son was 3 and her daughter was 11.
They are now 21 and 13. The daughter has autism, and may not live independently, ever.
The 13 year old son is a momma's boy to the truest of definitions.
I thought the hardest part of being with someone with kids would be the beginning when they were young and needed every minute of my wife's time.