Just like to say that I am really glad that I found this site. I knew that I wasn't the only person in this world feeling like I want to pull my hair out. I have 2 sd's and these children are (in my opinion....MINE) and I am soooo sick and tired of hearing that I am just the step mom...and have no real opinion in anything that goes on. Their bm passed away almost 3 years ago..and we have been fighting the bio grandmother for 2 and a half years. Its been a NIGHTMARE....am I alone in that or is there anyone else out there in a similar situation??