You are here

Update from my last entry this morning.

Sleepymom's picture

Submitted by Sleepymom on Tue, 01/07/2020 - 2:51pm

Thank you everyone for the feedback. I absolutely needed all the positive reinforcement this morning! You are all awesome.  I'm going to try and wait until this weekend to leave just so I don't mess BS12 schedule up. He's been through enough. It breaks my heart. I will make it until Friday morning. I'm just going to start taking electronics away and reasonable punishments if it happens anymore! Idk why this site keeps kicking me off and I'll have to change my password every time so if I'm not responsive that's why, I'm trying to log back in!

 

be back shortly. Cracking open a cold one and taking a shower:)

 

Comments

ESMOD's picture

Submitted by ESMOD on Tue, 01/07/2020 - 3:03pm

I think they have it set up on here to log you out if your browser session ends.  It's actually to protect people.  Think of the situation where a SM is on her venting about her DH.. or talking about leaving their abusive spouse.. and then their spouse stumbles accross their login.

So it logs you out so that no one can come behind you and see your stuff.

I think you will find that once you have made a plan and take steps to putting it in motion.. you actually will be able to stand a lot more than you can when your frustration feels helpless.

ITB2012's picture

Submitted by ITB2012 on Tue, 01/07/2020 - 3:08pm

I had that happen. A virus got onto my work laptop and recorded my keystrokes plus there was something on it that would immediately reset my password so I couldn't get into different web sites. I'd check your computer if it keeps happening.

Powerfamily's picture

Submitted by Powerfamily on Wed, 01/08/2020 - 8:19am

I would if possible go home when it's 'his 4 am' time in his sleep pattern and start doing housework with my music playing LOUD and disturb him everyday until he gets the message about how unacceptable both his and his children behaviour is.

I did this many years ago when my brother left his wife, she would phone my mum's house and wake us up and leave very abusive answerphone messages, this when we only had a landline, before cell phones.  After telling her to stop and she wouldn't I go p*ssed off and every time she did to us, at  3am I would ring her parents and play her ranting messages down the phone to them and asked them to get her to stop.  It took a week for them to get her too stop.  They stated the first couple of times that it was nothing to do with them and not their problem, I would just reply calmly was it to do with us either.   

Lack of sleep is used by terroists for a reason because it is one of the worse things ever.