This has been a hard decision for my boyfriend...he had her write a letter to exwife's lawyer saying either she signs full custody over to him, or she takes him on fulltime...in all honesty I'm hoping she takes him on fulltime cause if we have him, the drama won't stop, the blaming won't stop, and I probably won't stick this out anymore.....I more than likely think that she'll take him on full time though..she thinks she'll get a free ride this way...I told BF I'd get a second job to pay the bills when his child support goes up cause I'm sure it will...it seems like I was better off single

it has finally happened to me. What most of you guys talk about...how the ex thinks everything is my fault. my boyfriend made his son wear a pullup to preschool the other day because he keeps wetting his pants in school. It was an idea we found on a parenting board and other mom's had tried it and so he tried it. We sent a note along with him to his teacher stating why he had to wear one that day and it seemed to work. She called today and started chewing him out saying, "I don't think he enjoyed that too much! And I don't agree with it!" Well DUH!

So today my BF's son came back to our house...yay...but once again BM sent him to school without any hat or gloves...finally the teacher pulled my BF aside and told him this is enough of him coming to school every other week without winter clothes...I have a feeling if it happens again CPS will be called and show up at both houses...since he's going to Head Start I know they will call if it happens again...it's really too bad that the judge was stupid enough to not change the order...the woman has no motherly instinct in her at all...

My daughter has ADHD but we're waiting for her to see the psych about medication..is there anything you guys do for your children that doesn't include meds that help them settle down and be less rambuctious?? Advice please!