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Submitted by sixxnguns on Mon, 04/07/2008 - 9:31pm

was actually good! FSS and I actually got along well Smile We did sit him down and tlak to him about lying and telling stories...and he seemed to take it well. I noticed that he had these white marks on his fingernail beds, and looked it up online...it looks like he may have some kind of vitamin deficency, I told FH if he still has those marks the next weekend he's here to take him into the dr to see what they are. BM dropped him off in a 3T shirt...the kid is 5 and the sleeves were half way up the kids arms! And all the other clothes and undies were too small! So this weekend FH bought him some new clothes to wear over here and we bought him some size 6 regular jeans, the front was WAY too tight and the back was loose, he's gaining weight from a poor diet at BM's and watching TOO much tc over there. And than he goes on to tell us BM's boyfriend is moving to Pennsylvania and they might move there too...yeah right, over our dead bodies..I told FH I'll get another job to pay for a lawyer because she is not taking him anywhere with the way she treats him. I'll take that boy in as my own and raise him the way a parent should raise their child. So we are going to start gathering evidence and keeping journals of what she's been doing. Hopefully the dr can document something that will show she's not caring for him properly...After this weekend, FSS and I kinda bonded so I think things will be good from than on...:P I just don't want this Bowel Movement to screw him up anymore than she already has..

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Submitted by bellacita on Tue, 04/08/2008 - 11:58am

being all protective of FSS! its good that he at least has u since BM seems to be a complete waste of oxygen. kudos to u for caring so much and going above and beyond that normal scope of a SM.

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Submitted by sixxnguns on Tue, 04/08/2008 - 1:02pm

but both FH and I realized that's what FSS would've wanted...we both talked to him and told him I wasn't going anywhere and he had to listen to both of us. And I know he has the potential to be a really good kid. I find it simply disgusting and disturbing that a woman who gave birth to this child isn't putting him as her first priority, I guess I feel like someone has to be a motherly figure and I'd rather try and get along with him than fight with him every time he's visiting. So I changed my mind, I'm going to try and get along with FSS and try and make some good for him...because BM isn't doing crap for him. I'm hoping someday he'll realize that his mother is the godlike figure he thinks she is right now. I wish he was old enough to realize that she's not caring for him the way a mother should!

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Submitted by bellacita on Tue, 04/08/2008 - 1:21pm

i was planning on disengaging last wkend but i figured enough is enough, i am tired of leaving my own home when the princess is here so i stayed. i was still annoyed at the way FSD acts, i know shes only 2 1/2 but shes out of control. fiancee even said thank u so much for trying...i know its not easy. and i told him, honestly, i really used to care but BM has poisoned the whole relationship w all the shit shes pulled and really, i dont care anymore. maybe one day i will get it back but rite now, im only doing it for FH. it makes me mad too...all we hear is my mama this my mama that...ugh. shes teaching her such bad habits too. the one day i was taking her to potty and she farted...i told her to say excuse me and she thot it was funny of course. so i said pretty girls dont fart, just so she wouldnt think it was funny. her response? my mama farts!!!..and i said well there u go...lol!!! the kid doesnt have a chance.