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SisterNeko's picture

Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 2:13pm

At least then I would have an intelligent conversation for once Smile So this weekend was interesting... I went away for a long weekend to do something with my mother (and BF's mom) and BF joined us on Friday. You would have thought that I had left him for a month! And I asked him to take care of my two cats and you would have thought I wanted blood or something from him - but I can take are of his kids on a daily basis and that is OK. grrrr

Any way for those of you that follow my blog, BF has been joking around a lot lately about getting engaged. I told him that is wasn't funny any more and to stop, well on Friday night - at a fancy restaurant his uncle gave him a ring pop and told him to give it to me. His mom dared him so he got down on one knee and proposed to me in front of everyone with a damn ring pop. Then blamed his mom for daring him. I took the candy and ate it, adding that the engagement was over as soon as the candy was gone. I didn't want to make a scene and i have already told him how I feel about it so...

This week or next I am going to put purple streaks (temporary) in my hair because BF told me that I couldn't because he didn't/doesn't want me too. You know it really SUCKS when you tell someone how you feel about something and they keep doing it anyway. Smile

Silent revenge.

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Oi Vey's picture

Submitted by Oi Vey on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 3:19pm

Perhaps I'm missing something.

You made your feelings about engagement clear to BF, and he MOCKED THEM, and did it IN FRONT of others??

He told you he "doesn't want you to" put colored streaks in your hair??

May I ask what DOES make him so appealing to you????

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 3:36pm

How old is he? What adult would do something so dumb then say my mommy dared me???

Maybe all the silly crap is just to cover up the fact that he does not want to get married.

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 6:47pm

that is kind of what I am thinking. He has picked up on that I am not happy about something but I always told him that I will not make a scene in front of other people of the kids but as soon as they go to bed we are going to have a talk, because he keeps bringing it up. I just want him to drop the whole thing. I get that he is not ready now so just don't talk about it or JOKE about it.

And he is a good guy, he does love me and gives me the world, just not a ring which could be related to his previous failed relationship but we'll see.