I've been a stepmom to SD since she was two, and now she's six. We have her every-other day. For years I tried to love her despite her endless, endless screaming temper tantrums and mile long mean streak. In fact, I did love her for a time. But these days...even though we've worked on rules/disipline and she no longer acts out to the extent that she used to, I feel nothing but hate for her now.