My step daughter is supposedly moving in with us.  Shes 19 and has been out of school for a year and has $500 to her name.  She says she's been working but I'm pretty sure she's been spending countless weeks with her boyfriend at his parent's house.  Circumstances were such that last Summer she moved out of the area with her siblings and mom.  None of the kids really wanted to go but my husband travels a lot for work and it was not feasible.  He told all of them, take the move as an opportunity.  Work hard, save money and move back on your own terms.

So, DH and I recently bought a travel trailer. It's funny because when we were out looking at them, never once did the fact that it had no room for his children come up. He was content with the fact that it had a dual reclining couch and a nice queen size bed for the both of us. So we've taken it out a few times and the I guess the guilt got to him that he hadn't bought his kids out in it. So I reluctantly agreed to go camping with his parents and take two of his three kids. Well, that was the biggest mistake of my life. There's just not enough room and he caters to these kids so much.

Kids were here again this weekend.  I'll remind you....2 girls, ages 15 and 18.  One boy, age 13.

Ever since the oldest turned 18 DH has told her ay least two dozen times what an adult she is.  She is the farthest thing from it.  She cannot do or think about two things at once.  She has no ambition.  No driver's license, no job. Two times now she's told her dad 45 minutes before she needs to be somewhere.  When asked why she doesn't tell him more ahead of time, her cop out is "I don't know". I call BS!! It is because she's not held accountable and not pushed to do shit!!

So, I have been at my new job almost three months!  Much different than what I used to do but I am loving it!  However, on the weekends my DH has hiis kids, I dread going home on Friday night...and I am not allowed to work overtime lol.  

I do not even want to be around these brats anymore.  The weekends they are here, I plan my outings so that I am gone the majority of the day on Saturday....periodically Sunday.  I am not sure DH has caught on yet or if he figures I just need to do errands on the weekend since I work all week.