Ive tried a few times to post here. I need confirmation that I am not alone, that I am not crazy and that it is not wrong for me to set boundries for 13 yr old SD. And how in the hell can I get my husband to get onboard with trying to raise his daughter with morals, values and to let me correct her when she is wrong. I cannot even tell her one simple thing like dont throw the spoons in the trash with the paper plate she's eaten ice cream on withouth BF blowing up at me. For the love of God this SD is 13 with ADHD and being constant is important in parenting. She is devious, deceptive.