After finally getting court ordered parenting time BM decided to move to another state. There was nothing we could do unless we had 2000 dollars just to start the emergency procedings to keep her in the state. (since she is moving back to home state she does not have to have permission to leave) Well she has been a royal c*** about the whole issue. I have been keeping out of it and shutting my mouth so it wont cause problems for my husband but after last night i just couldnt take any more. We live 8 hrs from BM and due to my husband being in the service and her abrupt plans on moving we had 5 days in witch we could see SD before she left. So it was not enough time for BF to get a pass to drive that far. So me being the good wife i am have once again set out on the long ass journey to get his daughter. We usally meet half way but the last few times she has came up with some bs excuse on why she cant meet even knowing a month and a half in advance what weeks we will have her. BF goes into the field today and so it is on me to take SD back to BM. Last night they were talking on the phone trying to figure out how we were going to work out visitations to see SD. Nothing in there conversation got resolved because all she did was bitch about me. Brandy this, brandy that and the same old song and dance we have been going threw for over 2 yrs with her. BF decided he didnt want to tell me exactly what was going on and so (i know this was wrong) i read his text they were sending each other. Aparently after her bitching about me so long BF just hung up on her. I was very proud of him for that but the shit she was say was the straw that broke the camels back for me. My whole family is hurting cause BM is ripping his daughter out of our lives for personal problems AKA my boy friend dumped me. Tear tear... When she is with a guy she dose not answer BF calls and makes excuses of why we cant have her at our schedualed time. But when she is singel it BF come to my rescue save me. Im lonley and need a friend. There friendship use to be good until he took her to court so she couldnt give us the bs excuses of why he could not see SD. She at that point told him our conversations will consist only of SD and nothing else and now she's telling him they need to work on there friendship. I know how that worked out last time not going down that road again. So i lost my temper and text her "U think my comments were out of line and none of my buisness but you have no problem sticking your noes in my mine and my husbands marriage. I here the things you say about me and not wanting me around SD. Dont judge me and my life till you look at your own". When i picked up SD 5 days ago she showed up and 1hr and half late so i also said "btw are you going to be on time or an hr late again? "and as for you and your "friendship with BF it will consist only of discussions of SD and nothing else. U ruined that friendship all on your own". So what does she do starts texting BF. Oh course he had no idea what i did but knew he would find out. So she wrote back that she is late because she drives farther than us. Witch is not the case you can google it. any other time we meet are arivell time is within 2 min of each other. She than told me she wasnt not going to discusse anything with me. Fine just talk shit behind my back but no balls to back it up you stupid bitch. So i was livid by this point and wrote her and said "ya know what you can drive and pick up SD on your own. I will not meet you half way". Then i threw the court order in her face it states that if one parent picks the SD up the full way it is the other parents responability to pick them back up. She signed and agreed so what ever. Oh no now im in trouble BF phone starts ringing off the hook. So needless to say me standing up for my self and the bull shit she says about me only got my husband mad at me and i still have to drive for 8 hrs today. Yeah me!!! My husband is gone for 2 weeks now so hopefully he will be over it before he gets home. I can honestly say that this is the first time he has been mad at me and i just dont give 2 shits. Im not going to let her sit there and trash talk me when im not a bad person and i have had to keep my mouth shut for over 2 yrs now. A person can only handle so much. So today I am being a bitch and will be an hr late bringing SD back. Sounds childish? yup. Dont care.. Shes leaving the state it will be months before we see SD again so what ever. And i will enjoy every second of that extra time loving on my SD. You guys have no idea or maybe you do how much i love my SD. It is breaking my heart to have to see her go to a place we will only be able to see her in the summer. I have never seen my husband cry that is how much this is effecting our family. How does he expect me to just sit here and take it all. I belive that after over 2 years i have the right to lose it.