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Holy Crap! UberSkank is actually going to bring step-demon over tomorrow night!

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Thu, 11/19/2009 - 3:14pm

Will wonders never cease?? DH was completely surprised her response to him verifying if step-demon will be dropped off at 7pm was decent. Well as decent as she can be...."she'll be there about 7pm!"

We did not hear a peep out of her after DH sent his email to her two weeks ago (see last blog). He let her know we're keeping track of every violation, including the late arrival (2 hours late) on the one weekend in September DH got to see his daughter. He copied parts of the judgement and parenting plan specifying drop off/pick up times and places and potential consequences if the plan is violated.

I'm actually beginning to wonder if little miss "the rules don't apply to me" was intimidated by DH's warning that if she continued to deny visitation he would file contempt charges. As far as I know she has violated every judgement and parenting plan every signed by the judge. Then again.....Judge Judy (nickname) really, really doesn't like her.

So maybe this time she's thinking twice about pissing off DH. Because she's known DH for years, so you would assume that by now she'd understand when DH says he's going to do something....he's going to do it! And if he files contempt charges, I'm willing to bet Judge Judy will NOT be happy with UberSkank and do her worst. Well, except jail time considering she has 2 1/2 kids living with her full time. Smile

Now.....DH is a little more hopeful that step-demon will be with us for Thanksgiving and the family trip.

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Submitted by imagr8tma on Thu, 11/19/2009 - 3:34pm

Great! I hope it all works out that your stepchild is there for Thanksgiving and the family trip. Hopefully the holiday will not have that added stress of fighting with BM.

********She doesn't have to love me or even like me - it doesn't change a dang thing..... So get over it and move on BM!************

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Thu, 11/19/2009 - 3:50pm

Thank you! My gut is telling me UberSkank knows she pushed DH way past what he will tolerate a few weeks ago. He was holding firm on not going back to court about this situation. Now he's all about filing charges if she keeps acting like an idiot. I was pretty shocked because we have been going back to court every 3-6 months for the last three years. DH was completely done with sitting before the judge and having to justify his existence in his child's life. His change of mind really surprised me.

I hope for DH and step-demon (sd14) she spends Thanksgiving with us and goes on the family trip. Step-demon has been on myspace and her cousin keeps telling us how much she wants to go. I personally no longer have or want a relationship with step-demon. She has done too much damage for me to ever trust her again. But, for DH's sake I will be decent and polite to her and will make sure she's included in a of DH's family gatherings.

“Be like a duck. Calm on the surface, but always paddling like the dickens underneath.”
Michael Caine