My SD has been telling lies for a long time. Super lies about everyone all the time. About me about her parents about her stepdad, anybody she has ever meet. She has been being violent to my children and telling them horrible things. She was also telling my kids horrible things like someone was going to come and kill them. When we asked her why she does these things. She replied my mom tells me to!!!!!!!

The BM has many many many problems. She puts on her great mother facade to the world. But has done wicked things to her own kid.

I finally told my H that I have taken care of his kid now for years taught her, her abcs, how to read, potty trained her, yadadyadayadda.I said I could not have his child influencing our children together. They have already been through hell. And this was to much on everyone.

I told him to try and "fix" his kid, have a displine plan with BM or counseling or something. He instead calls BM and says she needs to take the kid for awhile and he is basically not explaining why.

We have SD everyday even on Bm's day ( so i can babysit for free why she works).

Now SD hasn't been here for a few days. The house is calm, no fighting (with anyone), lots of laughter and fun.

Now what though? Does SD come back? I'm just so lost and confused.