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Having trouble with my parents getting into our buisness

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Tue, 06/14/2011 - 8:05pm

My parents told my DH that they don't see him being a dad to his stepsons (soon to be his adoptive sons). Here is the story my dad usually take my BS10,9 to Lowe's for the build and grow but two weekends ago my DH and I went with my BS10,9 DD5mos and SS4 then the next weekend came for the build and grow I took my BS10,9 DD5MOS and DH stayed home asleep (he works nights) but on Friday my DH was off just stayed up all night and slept in. My mom was pissed because she sees it as he goes when we have SS4 and does not go when we don't have him. Then DH gets mad at me for telling them everything but I don't. DH got mad at my parents for telling him that. Don't know what to do about it my parents tell me I need to stand up for them because know one will but my DH does a lot for them and my boys love him dearly.

My BS10,9 their bio father is not involved for 10 yrs so their SD is more like their dad then their bio father.

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Tue, 06/14/2011 - 10:16pm

I think it seems this whole thing has been blown out of proportion and explain that to each of them: Youre not taking sides- it happpened, this is the reason why it happened, this is why youre upset, get it, but talking and being angry about it isnt going to help the situation so move past and look forward to the next project you can all do as a family.