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Camping trip

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Mon, 10/17/2011 - 12:06pm

Well we camping with the whole family, me my DH SS5,DH's stepsons( my bio sons)and our daughter. We all had fun this past weekend. SS5 smashed his fingers with the door in the bathroom, but DH told him to stop swinging the door or you going to hurt but SS5 didn't listen. Anyways when we dropped him off at BM's apartment. DH told BM what happen and BM got mad and yelling at DH saying you are not responsible in watching him, he is my life and when I have to go to the bathroom I have in the stall with me with his back facing me. DH said you do not do with a five year old.

Need some advice

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Sat, 10/01/2011 - 8:39pm

I decided to disengage from SS5 all because me and my DH fight EOW. So I told DH that when you have him I'm going to my parents for the whole day so me and my kids don't have to deal with it. It's the same thing always DH keep your hands to your self so SS5 don't say anything. My kids always get into trouble when SS5 is here. I feel like when SS5 comes over he is above me DH's step sons and DH's DD we always come last from SS5. I don't do anything for SS5 any more I tell SS5 go tel/ask your dad.

BM Drama

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Tue, 09/13/2011 - 10:52pm

Well it turns out the BM is in the hospital, my DH found out by his work. My DH's work called him because BM looked up the number in the phone book then called my DH's work to get a hold of my DH because BM didn't have my DH's cell number in her purse and BM was sooo sick and in a lot of pain to call my DH on Sunday. Anyways BM was asking for help with SS5 to take him to school but DH goes into work at 6am so he can't take SS5. DH asked where is SS5 now BM said with her parents.

Being a good stepmon is it possible

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Wed, 08/31/2011 - 10:47pm

How do I go about being a good step mom in the eyes of DH? I tried being friendly I did set my rules on SS5 just like I do on my bio sons. But that's being mean to SS5. So just letting SS5 do what SS5 wants and telling my bio sons not to play poke SS5 because SS5 says ouch he hit me.SS5 always wants to play with his step brothers and they want to get away from SS5 so they don't get in trouble. If it does not go in SS5 way he is pissed and starts throwing a crying fit. The kids can't even play go fish SS5 has to win or he gets mad and won't play.

SS5 Birthday Party

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Tue, 08/30/2011 - 8:41pm

We had a small birthday party at mine and DH's apartment. Anyways we got him some toys and I asked DH if the toys were going to stay here or is he going to take them to BM's apartment. DH said they are going to stay here I said okay. Then it was time to leave and take him back DH told my SS5 that the toys are going to stay here. Then SS5 got upset and started crying about leaving the toys here at DH'S apartment. SS5 kept fake crying about the damn toys and DH said just let him take it it's his birthday. Then blames me for SS5 not wanting to be here with DH because I'm mean to SS5.

BM is acting weird

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Sun, 08/21/2011 - 11:03am

Let me start as to say BM has it in the CO that sexy baby can not be the designate competent adult unless both parties agree. That being said, this past week was my DH time with him and he missed about 6 days because my SS4 ( 5 at end of this month) said he didn't want to go.

Last visit with SS4

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Fri, 08/12/2011 - 10:59am

Well it was supposed to be last visit before school started. Well SS4 didn't want to go with my DH when he went to pick him up. SS4 was crying and said I don't want to go I always get in trouble(not true). So DH said if does not want to come I'm not going force him. Then BM was like now what, how am I supposed to make his b-day party and are you still going take SS4 to the Dr.

School Supplies that DH has to get

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Wed, 08/10/2011 - 10:58am

I hate the my DH pays BM CS and yet she has no money to buy my SS4 and school supplies or clothes. Oh yeah she don't work or chooses not to work so she can live off CS from both fathers and the government. While we struggle as it is buying school things for my kids (DH stepsons). DH is basically supporting two households one that he does not live in. So if DH was not paying CS she would not be able to live where she is at and we would have more money. I just get so mad at that and it too much money to back to court and and custody of SS4.

Dealing with DH and SS4 and BM

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Tue, 07/26/2011 - 11:24am

I hate that I that have to put SS4 in a bubble over here like BM does. I have to tell my BSs to let him have everything so SS4 won't get mad. If SS4 gets hurt BM gets mad and blames my DH why you were not watching him. Sometimes its not my BSs fault its SS4 just being a kid. BM has him in a big bubble they don't go outside BM gets mad at SS4's brother so SS4 can get what he wants or not get into trouble. BM lets him do whatever he wants whenever he wants. Sometimes I feel that I have to leave my house just SS4 won't get hurt or get mad.

Second summer time with SS4

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Submitted by Sexybaby on Sun, 07/17/2011 - 11:11am

Today is the second day with SS4 and already I'm going crazy. Well DH and I always fight a lot when he is with us. Mainly because of discipline the kids. SS4 thinks he rules the house and never gets into trouble that's how it is at BM's house so he expects that here.No sir not here I have rules my BS's tend to be mean to him its just how they are I do get after them for that mainly my oldest. Well last night was the first time SS4 cried very pissed off all because he didn't get to play a game on the computer.

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