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Bio Moms who want you to spend MORE time with their kids...even when their dad isn't there

SecondThoughts89's picture

Submitted by SecondThoughts89 on Fri, 04/24/2015 - 12:51am

...I just don't get it.

Aren't BM's supposed to not want their ex's new gfs to spend time with the kids?

Feels like she just wants to get the kids out of her hair..doesn't matter who she sends them off with.

Feeling trapped and overwhelmed.

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WTF...REALLY's picture

Submitted by WTF...REALLY on Fri, 04/24/2015 - 1:46am

Went thru this with hubbys ex. She just wants free day care.

Trust me. Stop it. Now. This will back fire. Stop being the live in nanny.

Monchichi's picture

Submitted by Monchichi on Fri, 04/24/2015 - 7:10am

I'm curious do they palm their children off on you and still bad mouth you and spouse or are these non bad mouthing BM's?

Ours would rather hell froze over than ever encourage any form of respect, never mind relationship between us and Chucky.

ChokinOnLemonz's picture

Submitted by ChokinOnLemonz on Fri, 04/24/2015 - 7:28am

Also once BM is finished using you as a nanny or starts feeling insecure in her position as MOTY, she will turn on you like a viper.

ej'scrazy's picture

Submitted by ej'scrazy on Fri, 04/24/2015 - 9:03am

This is 100% true! She was all good with me doing all of 'her' job until I said something she didn't like. She hates me now and is trying to get the kids to do the same.

Redredwine's picture

Submitted by Redredwine on Fri, 04/24/2015 - 7:36am

Seems like there's no middle ground. BMs either pawn the kids off every chance they are given or withhold the kids for any reason they can find. Ours is the latter.