I am so hurt and confused by the same token. I have been married for 6 years and I have to Boys of my own ages 2 with my husband and a 13 yr old from my prev. relationship. He has 1 boy age 8 and 1 girl age 10 and Their mom that always seems to be part of the root of the problem. Since I met him I have had issues with the Bio Mom. When I gave Birth to my soon to b 3 year old son, she NEVER let me see his kids again, so I really have'nt seen them since. I used to see them every single weekend and the loved me I mean they loved me!