I get so upset when I think about what DH has done and what he is that I find it impossible to get words out that don't consist of the "F" word. So, I've made a list (using a thersaurus) of words to use instead of swear words. It's amazing how much more effective good language skills has when telling someone off.

My favourite word that describes DH for today: Debauched

debauched" in British English

debauchedadjective uk /dɪˈbɔːtʃt/ us /dɪˈbɑːtʃt/
› made weaker or destroyed by bad sexual behaviour, drinking too much alcohol, taking drugs, etc.:

DH is now happily living with BM2 and SD2. Yep, they are co-habitating as "husband and wife" and playing happy families.

We got back together and it lasted a little over 6 weeks. I unfortunately found out that whilst we were discussing a reconciliation and attending marriage counselling whilst living apart, he was still knobbing BM2. In fact he was knobbing her right up until the day before he moved back. I forgave him.

Three weeks later he got shit faced drunk and spent the night with her. I forgave him.

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Even though your partner may not display all the charateristics of a plain narcissist, there are different characteristics that overt N's display that covert N's don't and vice versa. I know someone who flips between the two depending on the situation.