Has anybody done this? Did it make you feel better? Were you worried that she would tell the skids some of the things you said?

I am asking, because I feel the need to tell this "person" what I think of her. She has run her mouth about me for over a year. I have always taken the high road and "let it go." But, when you feel the need to defend your skids, because you love them and they have this complete idiot attempting to raise them and she's doing more damage than good. She is a toxic person in my skids' lives, and therefore, in MY life.

BM called FH a little while ago and asked if we could keep skids this weekend. FH told her that we have a race to go to and we're leaving Friday night and won't be back until Sunday night. It's BM's weekend and it would have made the 4th weekend in a row. Now, even my BM has never attempted this before...hmmmmmmmmm I wonder if BM is just trying to find out what we're doing every weekend. Could this be true? Could she be calling just to see what plans we've made? Why would anyone in their right mind do this? Geez..........I can't predict insanity.

So my SD8 has very bad allergies. She's got seasonal allergies combined with cat allergies (cat is at BM's house) and so I have SD8 taking Zyrtec. Well, SD8 had an "accident" in her bed the other night and after trying to convince us that her "ceiling must have leaked!" (lord heavens, our roof does not leak!), she eventually told us she had a little accident. SD8 then spoke with BM a little later and BM convinced her that her little accident must have been caused by the Zyrtec.

I had a response on here from someone who said it's not my "place" to volunteer for room mom at my skids school.
I took offense to that. I am a BM and I volunteered at my biokids school everyday for several years until I started working full time. My youngest is now 16 and parents volunteering just doesn't happen at high school except for dances and sporting events which I am involved in.