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Rude's picture

I've never had a blog, so excuse the mess I might make out of it.
I found this site while on a Google search having something to do with "How to deal with misbehaving stepkids?" For a while, I've frequented this site to gain insight and advice on my family. I had the acct "AllTheGoodUsernamesAreAlreadyTaken", but I thought the username sucked. I'd also begun commenting with a negative outlook, having just finished a stressful school break with the skids, and I think that's a crappy way to introduce myself to the community. So here's to a fresh start.
But, I ramble, I'm currently a SAHM to my BD2, turning 3 in May. I met my SO about five years ago, we were very close friends throughout that time. After a year, we'd realized our feelings became more and we began dating. When we got together, I was aware that he had children. I met them when they were ages 3, 4, and 5—all girls. They were great, at the time. SD5 exhibited quickly that she would be a handful, though. They're now 7 thru 9. The youngest is sweet, the middle child is an attention-seeker, and the eldest a brat.
The youngest two don't visit frequently. However, OSD comes to "live with us" every year or so for a handful of months, and when she's not staying for months, she's visiting fairly often on weekends and holidays. She's unpleasant, to say the least.
Nice to properly introduce myself and looking forward to making friends and acquaintances here. Smile

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CLove's picture

Hello.
I have two SDs. The eldest, SD17 is almost 18 this month. She is a sociopathic liar and was recently caught shoplifting. I have had several arguments with her in the past, so I have had to disengage, since December. Things have been very quiet, with a few little snarky comments here and there. Because she will graduate in a month or so (we hope), the custody arrangement will "age out" for her very soon and she has indicated she wants to stay with us full time. This one has never had a real job (for two weeks she worked 3 days and then was fired). She takes care of her 95-year old grandma, but that's it. Lazy, mean, and dirty. Soooooo I am not looking forward to THAT, needless to say.

SD10 is an angel in comparison: sweet, and funny and smart. We hang out and do things together, when her father is busy during his time. She loves me, for the most part.

Welcome back.

Rude's picture

Any prospects of a far away college in her future, per chance?
-OR-
Would it be unreasonable to charge her rent? I know my mother did that to me once I was college-age and out of HS.

And, thank you.